Postby WildcatOne » Mon Feb 01, 2010 10:28 pm
I've taken my youngest son Nick with me to NHRA National events here. He enjoyed the all-day adventure. Nick never once complained, got bored, got out of line or became a burden to me or the friends I went with. He loved all of it. He did explore every square inch of Houston Raceway Park himself without getting "lost" and he did meet and hang out with sportsman racers' kids, checked out the junior dragsters and did all the available thrill rides, concessions and souvenir shops because I let him. He soaked it all in and couldn't wait to go back again. I could say I'm lucky, but like many of us, I raised him in strict avoidance of modern-day junk culture, as so many of the kids his age have been thrust into since they were born. A lot of parents just dump their kids off at malls, movie theaters, summer programs, etc., because they don't have time to spend with them...and that neglect is reflected in the kids' behavior. Nick's generation is full of troubled kids, I've seen that from the beginning of his school days. I spent a lot of time with Nick. I made the time to do it. I took him with me to see and interact with the things I do and I went with him to experience the things he was interested in. I instilled a sense of individuality, belonging and specialness in him all his life and I encouraged him to keep his mind open not only to paths that are separate from the mainstream but to create his own place in life and not blend in with the rest of the herd, like the kids I taught guitar classes to at the college. To say they were ill-bred and without manners or disclipine would be a gross understatement. Nick just wasn't raised that way. He stands out. He understood the sportsman classes and the professional classes and he took preference to the guys with the hot rods. He got a big kick out of the jet cars. But his take on a 4-wide National Event format is sounds like it could be fun, it's not conventional...but maybe it'll work out? Nick will be 18 in a couple of weeks. I have learned a lot from him. I never pushed him into anything; he pushed himself. As it turns out, he is growing up in my own image and likeness. When I grow up, I want to be like him! Cheers, WC1
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