As we all know, I had an unexpected cancellation of my flight from Dallas to Des Moines Friday. I spent the whole day in the airport. I was caught up in a situation that I could not in my farthest imagination have planned to have happen, and it happened. My anger has subsided, I have accepted the fact that the airline is not liable and more than likely will not refund my money, (I went to their website and read the fine print) which in a combined total is a significant amount, and I have a perspective on it now that I didn't have when it was all going down. I won't go into the miserable details of what happened and how I reacted at the airport in the hours of 1:30-4PM from when I was standing in line to board the flight to Des Moines and suddenly the screen changed from "Boarding" to "Cancelled". I can just say that they refused to talk to me, they did not offer any explanation or alternative. "Your trip ends here. See ya." At the last possible second, as I was putting my travel bag down and preparing to dismantle the airline booth and its occupants with my bare hands and end up in trouble, an angel appeared from out of nowhere...a total stranger, a little old lady from Des Moines...and through the sheet of red that was all I could see, she shoved her cell phone in my face, with the 1-800 airline help desk person in there waiting to speak to me. I was able to book a standy flight back to Houston, although the poor soul who had to listen to me probably has bandages on her ears today from that pleasant chat. I have had some time to process this deal and think about it rationally, which unfortunately I was not able to bring myself to do while I was being shafted in Dallas. I could have stayed there and spent the night in the airport (I wondered what the cots were for that they had in the waiting areas) and flown to Des Moines Saturday morning...maybe...they didn't talk to me at all...but when I got back home, there was a message from them that I was booked on the 9:45AM flight. It was just not meant to be. OK. So. I got a few things done around here yesterday. Positive, life-giving things. My wife and youngest son had RSVP'd to my cousin Rodney's wedding down at the yacht club last night and I went with them. We walked in and all of my cousins that I grew up with were there, having a party and they were all blown away that I showed up. My SISTER, Sylvia was there! She flew in from Kansas City for the weekend to be there. I had no idea she was going to be there. We had a fabulous Italian dinner, hung out, got caught up on everybody and everything, and my cousin Bert from Shreveport's wife Debbie took this picture of me and Miss Debby. When something happens that you don't want to happen and you have to deal with it, what I do, anyway, is try to count my blessings and focus on the good side of it. This was good. It certainly wasn't the DragList Nationals, which I had planned and saved for for the last year, but it was my family and a wonderful occasion that my cousin was delighted to see me there for. As it turns out, Rodney lives right across the street from Pee Wee Bowen. It's a small world, after all. Here I am with Debby last night at Rodney's wedding. It's difficult for me to say "Cheers", but I am blessed to be the man in this exquisite woman's life, and my family was all there together for a few hours. What can I say. Through clenched teeth: Life is good. WC1
